2 u would have 2 be "Where have u been?" If your in a relationship surely u know by now. Since I know there are no toddlers reading my blog I think it
is safe 2 say u should know them by now. However for those of u who choose 2 be in "la la " land here is a brief summary. Well I will do my best 2 keep
it brief, cause when it comes 2 relations there is just nothing brief about them. But here it is as quick as I can give it. Men and Women both have 3 top
basic needs and yes I said basic. Later on in the relationship one or the other will eventually require more. It is only a matter of when "later" will happen.
This is where the differences begin and things can start 2 crumble. However when later happens and it most likely will...You must "I repeat" you must
go back 2 the basics! The 3 top basic needs of a Man is: He needs 2 be respected (not just feel like it), He needs 2 feel needed(by his woman/kids), and He needs
2 be fulfilled(meaning sexually and maybe in other ways but mostly sexually)...Here is where the 2 collide because the 3 top basic needs of a Woman is: She
needs Affection(not just sexually), She needs honest, open communication(more from her man),She needs Commitment 2 family(helping with the home life).
Looks pretty simple doesn't it? But far from it. Mainly because love is a need and both sexes will refuse 2 give the other what they need until their love need
is met. Yes u can say it: Crazy, but not Sexy and it sure ain't Cool! Both must go back 2 the school of loving each other. By learning 2 be flexible, 2 live in
harmony with each other, to walk together as one, to strengthen and compliment each other. This doesn't mean one forsakes all so that the other can just do
as they please. Which in most relationships this is usually what happens, one gives in or either gives up all together. Not the best solution and the problems
surely won't end there. If u refuse 2 work on it in the relationship your in the same issues will resurface in your next one. So why not embrace the differences?
Love is optimistic and it is tenacious it can be adventurous. So rather then think alike think together and before u flare up at each other's faults or place blame,
count 10 of your own. Most importantly make time for each other cause the more busy u are the more shallow u can become. It takes work 2 maintain a healthy
happy home...Sorry if that offends some but u have 2 work it in order for the differences 2 remain unique and not allow them 2 ruin us..So I challenge u embrace
The Differences...or Run from them and never have a fulfilling relationship. Either way u will have 2 eventually "Embrace The Differences"
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